I gave my sissy husband Alice the task of choosing one feminisation upgrade every week. As I expected, she chose soft options and managed to ‘forget’ a couple of times. To be honest, I did too as I was busy at work and it went off my radar a little.
Then when I bought her some little gifts, it brought it back for me. I need to keep on top of this.
I’d bought Alice a few little presents: pink nail varnish, eyebrow colour pencil, eye liner, a set of eye make up with brush and a bottle of perfume. This was my reminder to keep her thinking of one feminisation upgrade per week.
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It’s best to set a time and a date every week for the feminsiation upgrade task to turn it into a regular routine. I want to get Alice to be involved in her own feminisation and not just me thinking of things.
I told Alice that on Sunday evening every week she will stand in front of me and tell me what new feminised thing she will start to wear or something girly she’ll start to do from that time.
Of course, come Sunday evening she hadn’t thought of anything. Or so she said
The problem for her is that I get to choose is she doesn’t. I thought I’d start with an easy one for her first one but feminine nonetheless. I decided that from now on she will put on female perfume every day. This will be whether we’re seeing family, friends or her going to the office for work, going out (which I made her do anyway) or anything.

This worked. She now wears perfume all the time everyday. And she will carry it with her and apply it in the evenings whether we’re out or in.
It may seem like a little thing, but thse changes add up and she has something a little more feminine every week. Next week she needs to think of something new or I will choose again. I warned her that if I have to choose again because she hasn’t bothered, it will be something a lot more obvious.
I’ll probably go for an item of clothing as this is where I really want to take her for the future, especially getting her to wear skirts outside the home.
Christina, one of my mistress friends, gave me a wonderful idea that I hadn’t thought of — making her wear a female watch and rings. If Alice dorsn’t come up with this idea, it will be one I impose on her when she forgets her Sunday evening feminisation upgrade.
Let’s see what sissy Alice comes up with next weekend for her feminisation upgrade task. I’ would’m going to hint that she should consider the female watch. I’d prefer her in a skirt but the watch is a nice idea on the route to becoming my future permanent girly.
If only she’d wear a skirt like she has on in the photo on my book cover below all the time. Now that would be something.
Click on the book cover to see the story of how I feminised my husband.


I wish I had a woman to turn me but I must admit it would be a challenge
Sometimes you have to show a woman the benefits. In my case it was the other way round of course.
Lady A. Would arm hair depilation count as a feminine choice? Would Alice choose that, do you think?
It would count but I doubt Alice would choose it, lower arm anyway. Under arms are done of course
Mostly gentle but not always 🙂
Mmmm..nice thought… 😉
A lovely little touch Lady A – i can feel Alice wriggling at the thought. i am sure that the weekly decision making will get tougher and tougher for Alice…but oh so much fun for you! As you know i am sadly not in the same situation as Alice, but get a lot of pleasure from reading your blog and witnessing at close hand the gentle feminisation route that Alice is being led down. Such an exciting and ongoing journey….
cj 🙂
I always use(d) female perfumes since a very long time. No one ever told me something about it except that I smell nice.
For the moment I have three fragrances in my possession,one I used for a long time is Pure White linen (Light Breeze) from Estee Lauder,it smells wonderfully fresh..The one I use most frequently for the moment is Escale à Pondichéry-Dior which I love very much and find it hard to describe.And from time to time I use Calvin Klein One which I love also very much. I hope you find the time to check out these perfumes,and maybe that even Lady A might change ?
Kind regards
Connie Amanda
I’ve thought about the perfume idea before, but don’t want one that could be confused with an aftershave. Have you any suggestions to how to choose something that is more obviously feminine, or even specific examples?
Not really, I just smell them in the shop and spray them on Alice which is part of the fun. I then choose something feminine.
Lady A…, So nice of you to mention me in your post, Thank you for the kind words.. As we both Agree and Want for our feminised ( husband) wives that they become increasingly more feminine each and every day. I might suggest that Alice tries out her make up skills for that watch and ring shopping trip o And you can have her stop by one of the cosmetic stores for a mini make over and perhaps a manicure and pedicure as long as they will match her new lip color .. Keep up the Great work, always a pleasure……..Christina
I really don’t know why I didn’t think of the female watch thing. Thanks again.