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SISSY DISAPPOINTMENTS

2 November 2025 by Lady Alexa 6 Comments

Sissies can be such big disappointments at times. They seem to forget that their role is to serve a Mistress like me, and to be submissive and respectful. It’s not always their fault, sometimes things can’t be helped. Mostly it’s their fault.

I’d hoped to be writing about a very naughty sissy dinner party last Thursday but, in the end, the logistics of getting four sissies together and Girl and I at short notice didn’t work. Life and stuff intervened. I don’t blame anyone for that, there is more to life than being a Mistress or a sissy unfortunately. We’ve penciled in a future date for the next level of my sissy husband’s journey to something far sissier. Is sissier a word?

But sometimes, sissies are disappointments. They get so caught up in being a sissy, they often forget their place in the world of Female Domination and sissy submission.

A SISSY DINNER PARTY

27 October 2025 by Lady Alexa 11 Comments

Earlier this year, we had an impromptu sissy dinner party. Girl and I visited a sissy we know called Jenny. My idea had been to move Girl further along the sissy love road I’m taking her. Things changed as we decided to get a delivery, and I decided to make Girl serve me and Jenny naked.

The evening went very well, although it took a different turn than I’d expected. My plan to have Girl give Jenny a full blowjob didn’t pan out. However, Jenny and I decided to do it again, but next time with one or two of Jenny’s sissy friends, too.

AN FLR DYNAMIC

9 June 2025 by Lady Alexa 19 Comments

An FLR dynamic is forever twisting and turning, morphing and transforming. That’s probably the same in any relationship, FLR or vanilla. One month I think our FLR should work one way, and another month, I change my mind and the whole dynamic changes. One thing that affects any FLR is outside influence and changing lifestyle, another is the experiences we have.

Our FLR has twisted and turned again, such as in my on-off-on-off relationship with chastity cages. One moment I think they’re useful, the next they irritate me, especially when I think a sissy enjoys them just a little too much and uses them as a technique for delayed sissy gratification.

THE FLR AGREEMENT

14 February 2025 by Lady Alexa 37 Comments

What is an Female Led Relationship (FLR) but an agreed power imbalance in a woman and a man’s relationship. That power imbalance is based on an FLR agreement about how the couple want to live.

The male partner wants to live in a submissive relationship with a dominant woman who wants to take the lead. It works for both.

THE CHASTITY CAGE SAGA

27 January 2025 by Lady Alexa 53 Comments

In the past, I wasn’t keen on locking my sissy husband into a chastity cage. I had two main reasons for this. Firstly, I liked access to her little bits as I love to play with them and to tease her. Secondly, I have a view, that I haven’t changed, that sissies often prefer chastity cages more than their mistresses. That put me off.

However, my views have developed over time with changes to our FLR and I now like to lock my sissy away. Here’s what changed.

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