LADY ALEXA

IT’S THAT TIME AGAIN

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I like change and it’s that time when I think of all the fun new things to do next year. It’s sissy time for a change. I like to write down ideas for the forthcoming year at this time of year as it helps to crystalise things. Our Female Led Relationship has been through a lot of change in the past couple of years and I want more.

It’s not that I have any new ideas, it’s just that some things I’ve wanted to do are still hanging around to be done and I’d like to experience them next year. So what’s better than putting those loose threads into a post so I can tick them off as I go?

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THE SISSY VIEW

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My blog tells the story of my Female Led Relationship (FLR) from a Mistress viewpoint. Occasionally, I like to post my sissy husband’s perspective of our FLR. There have been a lot of changes in our FLR recently and there are some big changes still to come. An FLR like ours breaks with the established social conventions and I’m looking to break a few more.

For this post then, I’ve added a section where my sissy gives her thoughts on how we live our alternative lifestyle.

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THE REALITY OF AN FLR

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There are a lot of wrong assumptions about real Female-Led Relationships. These assumptions are based entirely on the fetish angle, as if that is the reality of an FLR for every second. Indeed, it was why I began this blog in the first place, writing about how to live an FLR in the real world.

The focus on the FLR fetish side is also why I get so many emails from men asking how to find a Mistress to feminise them and live in an FLR. Or how to get their wife to feminise them and start an FLR. Wrong questions entirely. The reality of an FLR is different and the fetish element is only part of what is, in real life, also a wider vanilla-type relationship.

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MISTRESS AND HER SISSY

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Our Female-Led Relationship between a Mistress and her sissy has moved on recently to a whole new level. I’ve taken my sissy husband to new sissy frontiers which will get me to my end goal. The point of a real FLR is that the relationship should be all about the Mistress. Her desires and needs must be paramount. It’s her sissy’s role to make that happen.

And I’m making this dream much closer.

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MISTRESS’S FLR RULES

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I’ve written articles before about Mistress’s FLR Rules of the house. They were useful for setting boundaries for my sissy husband, Girl and for when we’ve had other sissies visiting.

But nothing stands still, especially my wife-led marriage, and in recent times my thinking about our marriage has become tougher. I enjoy pushing boundaries and doing things that are not harmful or illegal but are often considered by society as ‘not correct.’ Isn’t that part of the fun?

Something that’s not illegal, hurts no one, is enjoyed by those doing it but other people think is wrong for some reason is highly exciting.

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