Having a lot of contact with family and friends often prevents my sissy husband Alice from being dressed correctly, ie feminine. The frustration has made me to think more about how we should go about feminising our husbands/partners/boyfriends and any man in general.
This isn’t about allowing those men who want to be feminised to dress female but about force feminising those men who don’t initially want to be girls. Such as my Alice.
I got Alice into her first skirt by linking it to sex and using trick logic. It was a sex game that I moved into real life.
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I got her to wear knickers/panties when we had sex and gradually increased their femininity until they had a little skirt attached. I then put her in a real skirt by pointing out there was little difference between panties with a skirt-like frill and a skirt.
Names are also important and calling her girl and Alice repeatedly has become the norm. She accepts that feminisation is her lifestyle through reinforcement.
Feminisation by Psychology & Re-Programming
Much of my encouraged/forced feminisation of Alice however, was and is achieved by applying psychology and getting Alice to think like a sissy girl. I call it de-programming her male characteristics and then re-programming female characteristics in their place.
One way to achieve this was to get her to do more and more of what would typically be called female tasks, such as sitting on the toilet and shaving her legs. In addition, I increased her submissiveness. It’s amazing what you can achieve by just asking firmly, “Get me a tea would you, sissy?”, “Rub my feet pretty sissy,” and so on.
Another great way to feminise and re-programme your man into a sissy is by involving him in selecting the feminine and sissy looks that he likes. Often, I’ll open the iPad to show pictures of feminised men to ask which ones Alice would prefer to look like.
I did this even in our early days of her encouraged (forced) feminisation and I continue it. I make it very clear that Alice will be becoming even more feminine in the future and while that’s not negotiable, she can help choose her preferred look. That is negotiable within boundaries.
We scan through pictures of transvestites, shemales and sissies. I make her tell me which she thinks are the most attractive. I think this makes the process more inclusive and takes it away from me just ordering her to be a girl. We’re both working together to achieve what I want.
I have some rules of course. She can only choose skirts or dresses that are short. She has to be exposed and girly. And they must be in feminine colours such as pink, yellow or white, for example.
Here’s Alice in the type of clothes I like to put her in at home. A very short girly skirt and a bra with breast forms. The more girly the better. It took a lot of effort to get her to this point but it was worth it.
Reinforcement
Any sissy has to be constantly reminded they are a sissy. This is through language and ensuring they adhere to female habits. There’s a lifetime of male programming to de-program. And it’s worth every minute to have your own submissive sissy husband to serve your every wish.
Using the word “forced” in terms of fantasy is fine. Many enjoy reading about it (as do I). Being “forced” in real life situations is a different story. Whether it is by physical means, blackmail or psychological manipulation. Forcing someone can open you up to civil, or even criminal prosecution. Many men, regardless of FLM/FLR, love to be feminized and play the part of wife, maid and/or sub. There is nothing wrong with that. The keyword here is “consent”. being forced and consenting are not compatible. I belong to a few BDSM/DS Groups. Consent is always key. If you write about real life situations and not fantasy. I’d be looking over my shoulder. What your hubby says he agrees to when you are present may not be what he tells a social worker or psychiatrist in private. Even if 90% of what you live is vanilla. Jails/prisons are full of people who ventured into that 10% by forcing or threatening someone. If your books. articles, etc. are fantasy, I wish you well. I think anyone in a FLR/FLM should ask themselves if it is based upon Love or Domination. Does it operate under Consent or Manipulation.
Your comment is a classic example of mansplaining. I’m not sure where you’re from but here in England there is also an expression for your comment – “Stating the bleeding obvious” which is also very appropriate. A cursory glance at some of my articles or googling Forced Feminisation would also give you an answer to your final questions which I guess are rhetorical. PS, rhetorical means framing what you say as a question to make a point or a statement rather than get an answer. And my novels are fantasy, there’s a clue at the beginning of each which states, “This novel is a work of fiction.” Fiction means made up or not real. My last comments were womansplaining.
I loved being feminized so much
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I whenton hrt whent n srs n breast implants.
.am now proudly female 24..7
And loveing ever second
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I loved being feminized so much
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I whenton hrt whent n srs n breast implants.
.am now proudly female 24..7
And loveing ever second
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I have been feminized. At first it was just a bedroom game to satisfy my gf lesbian fantasies. Then she took it further…gradual progression by buying me my own panties, bras, nighties…to hormones. I was somewhat resistant to escalation but over time I grew to actually like it. Since I worked from home I could dress as she wanted me to. In 6 months of hormones I had big girly nipples and almost B cup breasts that she loved to play with…and all the new sensations I felt conditioned me to accept and embrace feminization. I love being a feminized man now. Being a girl is so much better.
Lady A…
Love your thought “my point which was to involve your feminized man, or to be more feminized man, in selecting the looks that SHE likes.”
How powerful a tool in the reworking the male’s self-image by:
1. having part in the decision of what type of femininity she thinks most compatible as the more subservient and feminine member of your relationship.
2. seeing that other males are also learning the ‘norm’ of being pleasingly feminine in Female-male relationships.
3. accepting that ultimately that her state of mind as well as her proper role is now entirely attuned to being the most perfect girl she can be for You.
It’s so much more powerful if you include your feminised man and even if he/she complains I can pint out that he/she chose it
This is such a wonderful point. Many men and boys want to be pretty and feminine. Wives and mothers need to first encourage the male’s interest in femininity, and then have them take part in the clothing selections. Once males are being directed by women in these directions, then the Female led relationship will be cemented into the minds of the males. The new society that this has the potential to create will be one of complete female control, with men and boys being pretty, sweet and docile for the superior female gender!
However it’s achieved, the goal for women everywhere is to feminise males and control them
I cannot agree more with your assessment of the power of feminization on the make psyche. I started taking over our relationship when dating. It was slow going at first impressing my will on him. When I introduced him to panties and started using sex as reward and punishment his capitulation to me accelerated significantly! I do believe any man can be feminized unless he is gay!
If the male doesn’t desire feminisation as with Alice then yes it’s slow at first. They eventually accept and learn to enjoy it so it’s worth the effort
I always find it nice to get up and being aware that I can wear a dress the whole day.Such a day is today . I am dressed completely in white today and feeling very pretty.I am very aware that getting out dressed the way I am dressed is out of the question.But nothing can stop me from feeling the way I do,and that is such a lovely feeling. ; )
I love the second and the fourth pictures best.
Yes I think Alice preferred those two as well. I think you should go out, in the car maybe where it’s not so obvious or in the dark? I make Alice go out in the car sometimes in a skirt. She picks me up at times. She doesn’t get out of the car of course and the run from the front door to the car and back is fun but I enjoy seeing her bare legs under the steering wheel when she’s driving
nice…..