This article returns to one of my favourite topics, how to housewife your husband and turning him into a pretty bimbo submissive.
In writing this I am aware that I’m using a verb that doesn’t actually exist; ‘to housewife‘. However, I think that’s the beauty of the English language; you can change nouns into verbs and everyone knows exactly what you mean.
But I digress from an important message and that is the reason why we need to housewife and humiliate our husbands and boyfriends.
Housewife your husbands
My regular readers know that I am very strident in my views about forced feminisation and housewifing. It’s not about what the man wants or his fantasies, it’s about what the lady wants. In any female led relationship, the desires of the lady are the only important element.
To bring this down to the relationship in my own home, I’ve often written about a concern that Alice is either becoming too comfortable as a housewife or enjoys it. So as I hinted at last time, I’ve had to ratchet up my own domination and Alice’s humiliation in order to maintain my control. I suppose it doesn’t help that I’m a relatively benign mistress and I don’t want to change this. I do want to maintain full control though.
In the female led relationship scenario, the interaction between lady and male has to be adult/child (psychologically speaking), Mistress/maid, Lady/submissive. To show this you need to demonstrate the inequality between you and your submissive housewife. I use feminisation, punishment and housewifing to do this as an everyday lifestyle in our home. Furthermore I insist on Alice wearing very revealing clothing to heighten her vulnerability. I now realise I need to go a little further.
Constant Humiliation
I’m still learning how best to run a female led relationship if I’m honest. Just housewifing Alice was not enough. To keep her in a state of submission I also need to keep her humiliated. Revealing clothing is all well and good and fairly humiliating.
On Sunday for example, we went to have dinner at the home of our friends who live the same lifestyle. Alice had to wear a short white ra-ra skirt and very high heels. Alice is wearing the same skirt on the cover of my book ‘How I Feminised my Husband‘.
Afterwards I knew it wasn’t humiliating enough as she seemed almost used to it. So I’ve put in place a set of new rules for the relationship. I’ll dedicate a post to each one. The first new rule is that she can no longer wear knickers / panties.
Yes I’ve banned them whatever they’re called. That may seem counter-intuitive as they emphasise Alice’s femininity. In practice she’s been wearing female underwear for about five years and I would say she’s become accustomed to it. She even told me she prefers the feeling now and would never return to male underpants. Well that’s never going to happen anyway.
So why have I banned panties/knickers? It makes Alice a humiliated housewife that’s why. Imagine that she hadn’t been wearing panties on Sunday evening. Instead of sitting there all comfortable, she would have been constantly worried that the shortness of her skirt would expose her little clitty. She would then be sitting more carefully, walking and bending with care so as not to show her little thing to our friends who would not have wanted to see it either I’m sure. The same applies at home where the shortness of her skirts and dresses ensures she has to be aware of her vulnerability continually.
This is not enough on its own as she now has to dress her little clitty daily. A pink ribbon tied in a bow or a pink garter wrapped around its base is the minimum wear.
Increasing her housewifing and humiliation
The ban on panties applies at all times, no more panties even when she’s in male disguise. Under her male trousers she has to wear a pink bow around her clitty. Commando then, although nothing to do with the Royal MarineCommandos I can assure you. As with the picture, I now prefer her with a skirt that’s too short to cover everything.
I would love to hear more ideas for dressing her little tinky up. I’m sure there are things I haven’t yet thought of that feminise it even more. Please do leave a comment or send me an email.
Keeping him without panties while wearing a too short skirt or uniform is perfect humiliation for him to expose his THING to others. Often his secret wish is to be discovered by others without panties to protect IT from view. When he sees the others have discovered this exposure, he will find the THING growing to erection. When he walks, the THING will protrude, erect and exposed to all. Humiliating, red faced, he will receive the comments from others. This is even more exciting, and he may drip clear fluid. If he wears a slave collar, his wrists can be attached to it, so that he cannot cover IT, leaving it vulnerable to physical abuse. Made to do his chores in this manner will complete the humiliation.
Hi I like reading how you got Alice to where his place is in your relationship I was wondering how things are right now given how the world is right now.
Things are easier feminisation wise
Things are just fine. The outside world doesn’t affect male feminisation and FLR
Mye idea of the ideal situation for a submissive husband is for his wife to issue him with a list of household tasks with the times that those tasks are to be done and the uniform he must wear when carrying out those duties. Apart from inviting some friends to dinner with her husband serving as the parlour maid and standing by the wall while the guests enjoy the meal and conversation (I have done this and it is wonderful) I visualise the situation when the husband it cleaning the lounge in uniform when an unexpected visitor calls and the wife invites them into the lounge and when they look surprised at her cleaner the wife just says “Oh that is just the maid ignore her”
I like the idea of s uniform for Alice. I tried once but made the mistake of buying it from China and it was too small. I’ll look again
Have you ever considered getting Alice a tattoo?! I got two pink bows tattood on my hips right above my clity but just under my belt line so I can hide them if needbe! I LOVE THEM! I did it because I wanted to guarantee that I get into a FLR relationship, no woman is going to see me as a man after they see me naked! I won’t ever be able to be naked in front of a woman without her laughing! 🙂 I got it a little more than two years ago and I’ve only gotten one chance at getting a woman into bed, and I was so lucky that she liked them! Things took an unexpected turn when she ended up fucking me with a dildo that night!
Email me and I’ll send you pics if your interested!
No, I’m not that keen on tattoos, just Alice in a little skirt
so hot……….
Love that more and more Females are by leaps and bounds coming up with highly personalized forms of discipline and feminization in the continual training of Their male girls. Your tact of keeping Alice visually exposed for YOU is brilliant -MAINLY BECAUSE IT PLEASES AND FULFILLS WHAT YOU INDIVIDUALLY DESIRE and/or SATISFIES YOU.
Now another Woman might prefer that Her male girl NEVER be exposed, and THAT is wonderful as well if it expresses and completes HER vision of what establishing proper Female control fits HER image. Other Women might devise yet more different parameter to enforce dominance. It truly doe not matter the particular programs They choose to enact… the main objective is that more and more the male girl sees that is solely the Female who has chosen to keep ‘her’ who decides the format of training/instruction/guidance…
And it is likely that the more variable Females are in taking control and empowering themselves, the bewildered male in society sees its sex as even far more captive and bound to whatever individual venues She desires to obtain and increase Her dominance… increasingly the poor little dears shall understand how helpless is their plight as male girls no matter what their Female Masters come up with to enforce Their rightful authority.
“Housewifing your husband” – I love this concept. I wonder how many women are housewifing their husbands into their obedient, submissive and pretty housewives and housemaids.
I love the first drawing.
*curtsy*
I wonder too. Yes I do like that drawing and it does remind me of Alice which is why I chose it
I believe you refer to her pom poms as pussy balls. Just two loops to help pull it on and then secure it.
Yes, public measuring would be incredibly humiliating. Not just that but being given a choice of designs to choose from. Undoubtedly this would start to make her clit hard which would no doubt elicit further comments but perhaps no need to re measure?
Wonderful
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Some sort of girly princess knitted clitty warmer. With two loops at the bottom which can be pulled round the back of the pom poms and secured with a little pink padlock
Perhaps you could get Alice to learn to knit and if she doesn’t learn and make it in time then she has to suffer the indignity of a public measuring session from one of your friends who knits
That’s a nice idea Britney. I don’t get the bit about the loops and pom poms could you describe in another way? I would really want a friend measuring her up though
i do agree girls can get so used to wearing panties that they just become ‘normal underwear’ to her and therefore lose their humiliation and feminization powers. Have You considered ‘special’ panties for Alice? My Lady J. noticed that i was becoming accustomed to my panties so She decided to make me buy some especially humiliating panties from shops on the internet. i have a sweet pink satin pair from Birch Place with the words ‘Spank Me’ on the back. i often have to wear them to work under my ‘guy clothes’, usually with a ribbon or garter around my clittie. Also on Friday evenings for my punishment book sessions, where a spanking is the least of my worries as She is very fond of Her whip little cane and the ‘reminders’ it leaves on my bottom. Even more degrading and feminizing are my ‘pussy access’ panties that i own in several styles and colours, also from Birch Place. They have a lace-trimmed access hole perfectly positioned for Her strap-on. Since She truly does wear the pants in our relationship it is only fitting that She also has the cock and instant access to my ‘pussy’, whenever and wherever She chooses. The psychological effect of wearing these panties is truly amazing, i become so much more submissive and feminine!
Thank you Tris. I don’t access Alice’s ‘pussy’ this way so I’ve got her some crotch-less knickers so she has very female knickers and an exposed clitty
Dear Lady Alexa,
Have you thought of getting her foreskin or frenulum pierced with a ring so that you can hang small items on it, like a bell, an ornament or a small weight for example. You could also clip a chain to it to lead him by, tether her to the bed or chain her clitty to her nipples!
Regards, Gordon
Funny enough, this is how I started one of my stories. It was about a forced feminised male who had his foreskin pierced and a cat’s bell attached. I’m not sure I want to go that far with Alice in real life but I like your suggestion. I’ll think abut a little cat’s collar which I can wrap around her clitty and pussy balls with a little bell attached
Mistress K has decorated my sissy clitty a few times in that manner now that my clitty is locked most of the time she only does it during a service session once in a while when she’s unlocked my clitty. It’s a great idea tho for dominant ladies to do to their feminized males!
Locked or decorated, as long as the Mistress owns it then it’s fine
The pink bow must be the ultimate humiliation Mistress.
To have ones clitty adorned with such a feminine item and knowing that any non feminine movement will expose it must be the ultimate subjugation.
Curtsy
Sally
I think it’s a good start yes. I have some other ideas too
lol I should have read this yesterday!
Do tell us why