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SISSY TRAINING

4 June 2022 by Lady Alexa 105 Comments

Every mistress has to maintain sissy training, even when you’ve succeeded in turning your man into a sissy, as I have. It’s an overhead of any FLR.

Although sissy may be a willing participant, she won’t always understand exactly how you want them to be and they can let standards slip. They are sissies after all. In my case, my husband Alice can be somewhat reluctant or lazy. Whatever the situation, ongoing sissy training is an important element of any FLR.

I’m going to look at my own FLR as the example of ongoing sissy training.

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Repetiton

Making my sissy do the same thing over and over is my standard method of training. Social conditioning will have conditioned their minds to one way of behaviour. This has to be broken down and replaced by new behaviours. It takes time.

One example is sitting style. Men tend to throw themselves down and sit with their legs apart so this needs to be changed. Occasionally, I will make Alice practise several times putting herself down in a delicate way and sitting with her knees together, legs to one side. Other repetition activities include curtseying and walking like a girl.

Alice still forgets to act like a proper sissy girl although repetition has sanded off some of the rough edges. It’s important to practise.

Clothing

I don’t believe a mistress should allow sissies to become used to their female clothing. I know that sounds counter-intuitive but I have my reasons: I like to keep Alice on her toes and feeling a little uncomfortable. A sissy can become too used to wearing a nice skirt. I change things around and update her wardrobe from time to time.

It’s fun to buy her the most girly sissy clothes possible, skirts with pleats or ra-ra styles are particularly good fun for dressing her up.

Sissy in a short skirt
Alice in a tiny chiffon ra-ra skirt

You can check out exactly how I put my husband in skirts in this true-life book, updated for 2022 including photos of pretty Alice. Click on the book cover image.

How I Feminized My Husband book cover
Alice on the cover of my updated book

Orgasm Control

Since I don’t allow Alice to cum any more, I am training her to become accustomed to not orgasming. I need her little clitty hard for long periods for my enjoyment. I’ve added daily sessions where she has to bring herself to the point then stop.

This is done under my supervision and sometimes I’ll do it for her using my hand or mouth to intensify her control training.

This daily ‘edging’ practice is already extending the time she can last. I make her get to the edge, calm down, then start again. She will do this several times in one session. It’s a great training technique as it replicates events in real sex where she has to stop herself cumming. It’s becoming natural for her.

Orgasm denial is a well-known sexual technique for dominant/submissive relationships. Sex for Alice is still pleasurable and she enjoys being highly aroused albeit without the final resolution.

orgasm control
This will stop your silly little clitty from getting hard, sissy. Click on the video

After edging practice or in real life sex, Alice’s urges to orgasm dissipate after a while and she’s fine again. It’s as if she had cum. Apparently the cum is discharged through her urine or absorbed into her body. This relatively new aspect of sissy control is working out very well indeed. I will never go back to allowing her to orgasm.

Note: I also write articles about orgasm and ejaculation control and other FLR practices here at Vocal Media, (opens in a new tab)

Sissy Love

I’m training and conditioning Alice to be prepared for the day when she has sex with other sissies under my supervision. She will not be permitted to cum of course although the other sissy will be permitted to cum since I need Alice to get used to male cum.

Alice will be responsible for cleaning up the sissy’s mess so I’m not subjected to the smell.

Her training includes looking at images of pretty sissies where she has to tell me which one she likes. I also show her sissy and shemale porn videos so she can learn what she will be doing.

This is going well as before Covid lockdowns, she didn’t want anything to do with sissy porn but now she watches without complaint. I have found a couple of candidates but at the time of writing this, travel is proving difficult to arrange for a host of reasons.

I’m looking forward to it more than she is if I’m honest.

chastity devices for sissies
Click on video for how mistress will stop your silly clitty from getting hard.

Clitty training

I enjoy a traditional husband/wife love life with Alice aside from not permitting her to orgasm and me being in charge of things in bed. Despite this, I continue to harbour a desire to reduce the size of her clitty. Whilst she’s not enormous and I suppose I might lose a bit of feeling during events, I think seeing her with a cuter and smaller girly clitty is a good compensation.

Since I need her to perform, I’ll not go down the route of hormones. This leaves the idea that it can be reduced through a restrictive chastity device, one that is far smaller than her clitty. Ideally one that is flat I guess. I need to look into it a little more as our experience of chastity devices is not good.

Any suggestions from those with experience in this area would be appreciated. If there are any mistresses who have achieved this on their sissies or sissies who have gone through clitty reduction, It would be great to hear from you.

orgasm control
Ezada’s Orgasm Control Box – click on video for more info

Sissy Training

I think it’s great that sissy and shemale communities are springing up.

Shemale.com was created by a group of T-girls who became who they are with care, struggle and dedication. They would love for you to understand their world and lifestyle better and they hope that their site will help you do that.

And if you find yourself getting excited – well, then they have succeeded

As for Alice’s sissy training, maybe I can put her on sissy.com? Maybe she’s not quite girly enough and a little too old.

Anyway, sissy training is an ongoing overhead for any mistress but worth the time. I believe it’s good to continue to push the boundaries to keep her on her toes and to make it all such fun.


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The Submissive Sissy book cover

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Comments

  1. katiez says

    2 February 2024 at 03:00

    When I was married, many years ago, my Wife/mistress would make me come up with new ways to prove I really wanted to be the best sissy I could be , before she allowed me to masturbate for her. That led to me from cooking dinner for her to cooking dinner for her and her boyfriend.

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    • Lady Alexa says

      5 February 2024 at 12:42

      Not sure that’s a great reward

      Reply
      • Geoffrey Zeigler says

        5 February 2024 at 13:52

        Nope it wasn’t. What started as a good idea turned bad. She left me for her boyfriend and a couple years later she left him and wanted to come back with me. But trust was gone and I haven’t seen or heard from her in 20 years.

        Reply
  2. LilyPeg says

    19 January 2024 at 15:24

    Thanks Dear Lady for your reply about sissygasms and mess you don’t like. Domme doesn’t allow mess either and makes sure her sissy swallows every drop if and when achieving a sissygasm.
    This is good practice to eat real men’s seed and females juices.

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    • Lady Alexa says

      10 February 2024 at 16:23

      It is very good practice indeed

      Reply
  3. LilyPeg says

    13 January 2024 at 13:48

    As a long time sissy l have worn a micro chastity cage over many months and it has shrunk my tiny uncut clitty from 2″ to 1″ inch. My domme doesn’t allow me to cum and l can no longer have full erections (only achieving 3″ inch in length). No hormones or ops just discipline and obedience. Serving both cock and pussy l’m now a good girl.

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    • Lady Alexa says

      15 January 2024 at 19:38

      Interesting, Lily. This is what I’m now doing to my sissy. So far, she continues to have erections and I want this to continue.

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      • Lily says

        15 January 2024 at 19:49

        Thanks Lady. sissy reads that sissies should be totally smooth and learn to tuck rather than wear a cage. Do you think this is a better arrangement? I don’t think my clitty will get much smaller now after months of being in chastity. Domme says my clitty is only used for peeing and cumming is only allowed through sissygasms.

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        • Lady Alexa says

          19 January 2024 at 13:57

          Oh, she allows sissygasms? I really don’t like the mess they make.

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      • Penny says

        10 February 2024 at 11:52

        Lady Alexa what part do you want Alice to do. ? Wear micro clitty cages or worship cock and pussy like a good sissy ? ๐Ÿ’‹ penny

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        • Lady Alexa says

          10 February 2024 at 16:23

          both

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  4. Corsetjane uk says

    18 September 2023 at 23:52

    Its been a while since i made a point of keeping up to date with your posts Mistress A, but again, after reading them, i cant understand why i stopped, as they continue to hit all my sissy buttons!
    i love how you have changed and developed Alice’s control and she is no longer allowed to reach normal orgasm and that you continue to feminise and introduce femme traits.
    Avoiding hormones and surgery is not in your armamentarium but i see you are still trying to reduce clitty size.
    At my age, i was not keen to have hormones either but have tried plant extracts of pueraria mirifica which are freely available online, and found that along with long term 24/7 chastity (3years now!) i can honestly say that my clit (yes i call it that too) is definitely smaller …and less powerful (something i do wonder if you’d like as it seems you still enjoy her satisfying you with it). The tabs have also resulted in slightly more prominent breasts…and nipples that are definitely more sensitive. i have also enhanced the latter using nipple suction device eg Supplenips. i have come (not cum! lol) to actually love and accept the new me and when locked, ny erections are now few and far between. i hardly notice the presence of the cage (the Holy Trainer Nub is the most comfortable and secure i find, although i have also used completely flat steel cages for more than a week for severe control), and those painful morning erections and cage tightenings are a thing of the past. Psychologically i find that long term chastity has continued to keep me more passive and calm, with a willingness to help out / serve…something obviously a bonus in a sissy i believe.!
    i wonder how Alice is getting on with her fellow sissy encounters, mine are sadly few and far between – not totally absent…but i living in hope of more!
    Please accept my compliments on your continued posts and do give my hugs to Alice
    ๐Ÿ™‚
    jane x

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    • Lady Alexa says

      19 September 2023 at 15:00

      hello again Jane. Alice’s sissy encounters haven’t really got going yet for a number of things unrelated to our FLR or sissy stuff. In time we’ll get there.

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  5. Viviana says

    29 July 2023 at 19:14

    We miss your posts Lady Alexa! It’s been over a year since your last entry.

    I hope you can start writing again soon.

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    • Lady Alexa says

      30 July 2023 at 20:26

      Coming back very soon. I had other priorites for a while

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      • chanel lacy says

        30 July 2023 at 23:25

        chanel lacy also echoes Viviana’s sentiments. Your writings are inspirational and chanel loves following the evolution of alice as Your feminine girl.

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        • Lady Alexa says

          31 July 2023 at 10:30

          Coming today – a new post

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          • Sissyslut says

            15 August 2023 at 00:20

            Where the new post?

            Reply
            • Lady Alexa says

              15 August 2023 at 13:56

              What new post?

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      • Sissyslut says

        15 August 2023 at 00:20

        Other priorities???

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        • Lady Alexa says

          15 August 2023 at 13:56

          Life goes on outside an FLR

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  6. Emily says

    24 April 2023 at 13:26

    I hope all is well with you and Alice. I hope another post is coming. When you’re ready of course.

    Reply
  7. Welwitschia says

    18 March 2023 at 16:04

    I noticed there is much talk of boob implants on here, and wondered if a less intrusive option of fake boobs would not suffice? That would at least give Alice a feel for what it is like to have breasts.
    a wannabe sissy in Australia

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    • Lady Alexa says

      18 March 2023 at 18:16

      Thatโ€™s what we do

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      • Penny says

        20 March 2023 at 10:02

        Good morning Lady Alexa what boobs does Alice have ?

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        • Lady Alexa says

          21 March 2023 at 18:10

          Not a lot

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          • Penny says

            15 August 2023 at 16:37

            But does she wear false ones ? I love my false boobs . Iโ€™d still love to come and play with Alice ? If you ever need a little extra sissy

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  8. chanel says

    26 December 2022 at 01:50

    Hello Lady Alexa. W/we hope this finds You and alice well and enjoying life.

    Mistress and i are very impressed with Your writings and continue to enjoy the chronicles of Your dominant life with Your submissive alice. It helps to reinforce the similar FLR W/we have. O/our relationship continues to evolve but the constant is my desire to submit completely to Mistress in all things and putting Her pleasure and Her happiness above mine.

    W/we wonder if You have a contract with alice? Despite being married, W/we have a contract, but it is probably the worldโ€™s shortest FLR contract. It consists of six words, โ€œMistress commands, sissy husband obeys โ€“ Always!โ€. It defines O/our relationship very succinctly.

    Although W/we have not read all Your articles, and You may have covered this already, but do You ever find the need to punish alice, and if so, what types of punishments do You apply to her? Mistress prescribes punishments that fit the crime, but She is always looking for more humiliating and creative ideas.

    For the most part, Mistress likes me to wear very feminine lingerie, mostly short baby dolls and chemises. Wearing lingerie in bed, She forbids me to wear any panties so She can have instant access to Her โ€œPropertyโ€ at all times. While working inside O/our home, She usually requires me to be naked except for panties, especially the tiny g string kind that comes with most lingerie. It barely covers my sissy clit and bits and I usually spill over and that makes Her laugh at my very submissive appearance.

    Mistress also likes me to wear makeup to appear more feminine. i continue to improve my skills but it is a difficult art to master. i am improving but i still have a long way to go. Do You require alice to wear makeup? If so, how long did it take her to perfect this skill?

    Thank You for taking time to read this. Mistress and i look forward to Your responses.

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  9. chanel says

    16 December 2022 at 04:06

    Dear Lady Alexa.

    i have recently been reading your articles on FLR and find them both insightful and fascinating.

    My feminine name is chanel and my Mistress/Wife and i have been in an FLR and feminization reprogramming for many years. i am totally in love with Mistress and am willing to do anything to please Her for that is the most important facet of O/our FLR.

    W/we have enjoyed many of the same things as You and alice. She, like You, believes in orgasm control/denial and it is the cornerstone of O/our FLR. Unlike You, Mistress requires me to wear a cage whenever She is absent. The only exception to this is twice daily i am to spend a half hour edging myself repeatedly, stopping just before release. When Mistress is present, She will edge me in the same manner. Mistress has come up with a clever and effective way to stop any potential ejaculation. W/we have a small cooler by the bed in O/our bedroom that contains cold packs that are to be applied to my sissy genitals anytime She or i sense an impending release. And i can tell You that the effect on me is shocking, immediate, and total. Since She has implemented this practice, it has lengthened the time it takes me to reach the point of potential ejaculation and shortened my recovery time. It is a win/win for both of U/us and is a small price for me to pay to improve my staying power and make Her happier longer.

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    • Lady Alexa says

      16 December 2022 at 10:03

      Hello Chanel and nice to hear from you about your FLR and orgasm denial. I think there are still too many submissives who havenโ€™t fully submitted and understood the importance for this in an FLR and my reasons.
      I agree, edging practice is a good technique to become accustomed to not orgasm really helps. I also often enjoy keeping Alice hard for long periods without her ever getting to the edge. This is also excellent practice for her and immense fun for me. As I have often mentioned, an erection is a sign of respect to a mistress.
      In bed, Alice can last for very long periods before getting to the edge and stopping. Wonderful

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  10. Helena says

    15 September 2022 at 15:16

    Repetition is good.
    To encourage Alice to go under a boobjob (and a hipjob) , play with his male boobs, lick and suck his nipples while Alice is on top of you and loudly say that if they were bigger there would be bigger pleasure.
    The hipjob will give Alice the right bodyshape, but it is morw difficult to convince, maybe grabbin Alice’s bum often can help you to persuade about this.

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  11. Sissy Ballerina says

    6 August 2022 at 16:22

    Have you considered making her take ballet lessons? She would get in shape and become more feminine while enduring all sorts of humiliation from the teacher and the ladies in class. Keep her on her toes, literally!

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    • Lady Alexa says

      6 August 2022 at 18:59

      No I havenโ€™t considered it

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  12. kathy says

    2 August 2022 at 01:00

    Lady Alexa … my Mistress has started something new with me / her sissy … shes dating again and has me make dinner and serve her and her date … after dinner and cleanup she will kiss and make out with her date for hours … all this time her dates cock is in my mouth at the end of the night he cums and she just loves it …during the kissing his cock throbs and pulses in my mouth … my clit is 2 in. at best .. wanted to share … Kat

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    • Lady Alexa says

      6 August 2022 at 13:06

      So he doesnโ€™t cum with your wife?

      Reply
  13. Frustrated Woman says

    24 July 2022 at 16:02

    How do you keep your husband from going over the edge emotionally and desiring a divorce? My husband still does what he is told but he seems very withdrawn and quiet. It almost feels like he is done with our FLR dynamic and demand a heavy swing the other direction.

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    • Lady Alexa says

      1 August 2022 at 16:42

      Because he enjoys it

      Reply
  14. Penny says

    16 June 2022 at 23:33

    Lady Alexa . If you need another sissy I am small and petite. And Iโ€™m free ?

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    • Lady Alexa says

      17 June 2022 at 15:36

      Are you in England? If so send me some photos to ladyalexa@mail.com

      Reply
  15. Sugar says

    16 June 2022 at 18:22

    As you say – so much fun! I’m sure Alice will overcome her trepidations. Let’s not sugar coat it – 1st time sissy love has it’s challenges! I’m assuming that you plan for Alice to be introduced to the full range of sissy love possibilities. I certainly hope so.

    Obviously there are many sexual possibilites to explore and whilst she will not enjoy the final ‘resolution’ that the other girls will get she still has the sweet possibility of falling in love with another sissy or even sissys!

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    • Lady Alexa says

      17 June 2022 at 15:37

      Yes, I want to see her explore the full range of possibilities

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  16. Melanie says

    16 June 2022 at 10:59

    I very much agree with Lady A about not letting the sissy stay in her comfort zone. Like Philippa, my sissy husband is convincing en femme in public (after a lot of work from me). I often take her on shopping/coffee trips. She enjoys them – except when I add a spot of public humiliation. Great fun, and very effective! I can recommend it.

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    • Lady Alexa says

      16 June 2022 at 13:59

      Yes sissy humiliation is so wonderful

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      • Andrea says

        12 July 2022 at 00:44

        Hi Mistress Alexa,

        If you ever want another sissy 24/7 I would love to apply for the position.

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        • Lady Alexa says

          12 July 2022 at 09:12

          I donโ€™t require another sissy 24/7. Maybe very occassionally

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          • Andrea says

            12 July 2022 at 12:30

            Dear Mistress,

            If you should require one Iโ€™m a no strings attached sissy

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            • Lady Alexa says

              12 July 2022 at 18:43

              Send me an email with a photo, full girly clothing only. I prefer very feminine sissies, I already have a sissy whoโ€™s hard to get very feminine

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          • Sissyslut says

            15 August 2023 at 00:16

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      • Melanie says

        14 July 2022 at 13:53

        Fascinating to read Philippaโ€™s progress report. It reminds me of how I trained up my own wifey, Jane. I have a full-time job, but as I work largely from home I can usually keep an eye on her. I started by getting her into a rather drab housewifeโ€™s outfit, โ€œPlain Jane ” as I call it. Black housekeeperโ€™s dress with white collar and cuffs, coming to just below the knee. Plain cotton undies and tights. Wig and just a touch of makeup, flat shoes. No jewellery. It didnโ€™t take long for this to be her comfort zone.

        Then I introduced a series of outfits for Gloria, as I call her when sheโ€™s wearing them. Good for amusing me when I feel like it, and for entertaining my lady friends, to some of whom I also rent her out, either as Jane or Gloria.

        As Lady A emphasises, lots of punishment and humiliation is required. Perhaps Iโ€™ll do another post on these. OK, there is a place for rewards too. In Gloriaโ€™s case, being allowed to revert to being Jane is a reward in itself, but there are also special treats which she knows she will get if she has really pleased me.

        I think Iโ€™ve more or less got her where I want her – a combination of domestic servant, barbie doll and sex toy.

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        • Penny says

          24 July 2022 at 15:17

          Omg what a lovely sex toy she must be ๐Ÿ’‹

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  17. RB says

    13 June 2022 at 15:20

    What a great idea for Alice to have supervised sex with another sissy where the other sissy is allowed to cum and Alice is not! Having Alice deal with another sissyโ€™s gooey mess, getting it all over him and even having it dripping from his girl clitty is the perfect way for him to see your point of view on this matter. He will quickly realize how nasty that is!

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    • Lady Alexa says

      14 June 2022 at 15:10

      Thatโ€™s certainly my idea although it would be nice if she liked other sissyโ€™s mess.

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      • darren says

        15 June 2022 at 19:32

        I’m sure Alice would learn to like sissy mess…with some encouragement from you, of course.

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        • Lady Alexa says

          16 June 2022 at 14:00

          Iโ€™ll make her like it

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          • Penny says

            2 August 2022 at 08:07

            Hmmm she would like my mess when mistress Maria eventually on the odd occasion letโ€™s me mess my panties. With the diet she has me on my mess tastes wonderful. I have to clean my panties and cage hmm so sweet

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            • Lady Alexa says

              6 August 2022 at 13:08

              Yuk. I wouldnโ€™t let you cum ever if you were my sissy.

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          • darran says

            9 August 2022 at 13:12

            “Yuk. I wouldnโ€™t let you cum ever if you were my sissy.” This is such an adorable comment that encapsulates your philosophy! I agree wholeheartedly with your attitude towards sissy orgasms (disgusting, horrid things!). Alice is extremely fortunate to have your guidance, Lady Alexa.

            I gave up my own orgasms over a year and a half ago and all was well until recently when, unfortunately, I had an ‘accident’. I was so ashamed with myself for cumming…a brief moment of pleasure, and then all that yucky, smelly mess! All my hard work of denial undone. Sadly, I have no mistress to guide me and there is only so much a sissy can do on her own, nonetheless, I am still grateful for your inspiration.

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            • Lady Alexa says

              9 August 2022 at 13:35

              I wouldnt beat yourself up. Alice has had a couple of accident, it happens. As long as she tries her best to stop her messing and sheโ€™s not being naughty then Iโ€™ll accept a real accident. A proper sissy will always focus on her mistressโ€™s needs and desires. Their own moment of release is irrelevant, unimportant and a distraction from their supposed focus on their mistressโ€™s pleasure. I donโ€™t understand why some sissies donโ€™t get it.

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          • Sissy says

            5 November 2023 at 10:59

            Hello mistress Alexa,let Alice cum after she cleaned the sissy mess over the sissies cock and let her clean until the other sissy comes again in her mouth maybe she start to love eating sissyโ€™s cum faster,itโ€™s my fantasy ๐Ÿ˜”

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            • Lady Alexa says

              5 November 2023 at 12:50

              Alice isn’t allowed to cum. The rest sounds perfect though

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          • Penny says

            7 November 2023 at 05:18

            Iโ€™d love to help you with making Alice like sissy mess . I try so hard to stay dry but having you encouraging Alice to try her best on her little sissy sister . I think all penny and Alice would want is to satisfy Lady Alexa. . Even if it means your visiting sissy has to clean up Aliceโ€™s accident. Hmm 2 lots of sissy shame but then 2 very timid sissyโ€™s at your disposal. What fun seeing the post cum shame on your girls .xx penny ๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹ curtsy

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      • Penny says

        8 November 2023 at 14:24

        I am sure she would come to liking the idea

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      • Penny says

        10 February 2024 at 16:36

        She will learn . I am sure ?

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  18. Penny says

    12 June 2022 at 13:46

    Not in the open do you hide it well or do you go right to the edge where people or family. If they found out would say thatโ€™s it itโ€™s all fallen into place now ?

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  19. Penny says

    11 June 2022 at 21:20

    Only problem is . As you probably no we would not want the reverse surgery. ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜

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  20. Philippa says

    11 June 2022 at 14:07

    My Wife and I are great admirers of your work, Lady A. She has given me permission to write this comment.

    About a year ago She underwent surgery and chemotherapy for cancer. She understandably banished me from Her bedroom. Having recovered, She was offered a good job and announced that She wanted me to resign from my job to become her housewife. I felt it would at least be a relief from all the stress Iโ€™d been undergoing, and it would obviously please Her.

    Now I sleep (alone) in a cotton nightie, and in the daytime wear a straight, knee-length plain black or grey dress over a white cotton padded sports bra, high-waist plain white cotton panties, suspender belt and opaque grey stockings (She says she hates holdups and tights). Mary Jane shoes, bob-style wig and a little makeup. Never again am I to wear male clothing, unless for a medical visit. I do all the housework, cooking, shopping, and drive Her to and from the station.

    I find the lifestyle surprisingly satisfying. The outfit is really comfy โ€“ more so than male clothing. I enjoy housework, and have no problem going out shopping etc, with my hairstyle covering much of my face, makeup and tinted spectacles. She has taught me how to walk and sit, and get in and out of a car like a lady. I donโ€™t get funny looks from anybody.

    Total abdication from the stress of commuting, office politics, financial worries etc. She says behavioural psychology claims that rewards are much more effective than punishments. So no โ€œmaintenance punishmentโ€ or indeed any other punishment (though once when I dropped a jug of custard on the kitchen floor she threatened to take me to a dominatrix and watch her give me a sound thrashing!). She often takes me on theatre trips, to restaurants or drives in the countryside, visits to carefully selected lady friends, buys me flowers for my room, and chocolates to nibble, and hugs me. Once a week She wears some sexy lingerie and tells me to get an erection in front of Her, “to keep you in practice” as She says. I love it all.

    Anyway, She’s recently been saying She’d like to move on the “the next stage.” I have a feeling that She’s thinking along the lines of Lady A’s comment above: “I donโ€™t believe a mistress should allow sissies to become used to their female clothing. I know that sounds counter-intuitive but I have a reason.” Watch this space.

    Reply
    • Lady Alexa says

      12 June 2022 at 15:45

      I look forward to hearing more

      Reply
      • Philippa says

        20 June 2022 at 13:14

        Thanks, Lady A. Iโ€™m under orders to give a progress report. My lovely Wife Kim has been discharged from all medication and treatment. Her hair has grown back and Her face is no longer pallid. The spring has come back into her step.

        She says Sheโ€™s thinking She might โ€œglam me up a bit for the eveningsโ€. She has made me browse lots of womenโ€™s clothing catalogues and websites and show Her what appeals to me. On Saturday She took me in my housewife outfit round some shops, looking at silky nighties (โ€œIn case I summon you back to my bedโ€), shapewear, sensuous lingerie, sheer stockings and high heels, elegant outer clothing and jewellery, commenting on how they would look on me. All in front of the sales assistants. She booked one of them, who had helped her choose my housewife outfit, to come round to our house for a bra fitting session.

        Afterwards She took me to my favourite restaurant for dinner, said She had enjoyed the day, and asked if I had. I said I was confused – it had all been very embarrassing, but somehow arousing as well. I remarked that She hadnโ€™t actually bought me anything. She replied that She hadnโ€™t finally decided what path to take me on, and had several alternatives to consider. She has more research for me to do.

        Reply
  21. Penny says

    11 June 2022 at 07:40

    Lady Alexa. Hmm boobs would be wonderful. Iโ€™d love a pair of jiggly ddโ€™s . I was thinking the other day if only me and mistress could go away travelling for 3 to 6 months I could have a breast implants before we go and have them removed before we get home . Hmmm 6 months where no one would no us . And nice boobs for me and mistress to play with . We are only here once so why not . Is my thoughts x penny

    Reply
    • Lady Alexa says

      11 June 2022 at 12:10

      Nice idea.

      Reply
  22. Penny says

    10 June 2022 at 09:40

    I also am not out in the real world but omg would love a pair of jiggly boobs for mistress Maria to play with I was really thinking of a boob job . And only having them for 3 to 6 months where we could go traveling and have them removed before we got home . Oh I wish x

    Reply
  23. darren says

    9 June 2022 at 14:09

    Lady Alexa, thank you so much for posting again. Your updates are always fascinating and very very much appreciated by us sissies. Thank you again.

    Reply
  24. Emily says

    7 June 2022 at 09:24

    Hello Lady Alexa. Have you ever thought about talking about your lifestyle on a podcast? You should check out the Strictly Anonymous podcast. It features people who live secret alt lifestyles. I think you would be awesome on the show. You can email the host at strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com
    If you’re interested.

    Reply
    • Lady Alexa says

      7 June 2022 at 10:29

      Interesting. I have never done audio yet in case my voice is recognised. I like the idea. Iโ€™ll check out the podcast

      Reply
      • Emily says

        11 June 2022 at 07:11

        That’s awesome! And don’t worry the host alters and changes the voices of her guests so that they won’t be recognized.

        Reply
        • Lady Alexa says

          11 June 2022 at 12:11

          In that case I will contact them

          Reply
  25. Natasha says

    7 June 2022 at 02:43

    How about getting breast implants for Alice? She will look better with a cute set of boobs that jiggle as she walks.

    Reply
    • Lady Alexa says

      7 June 2022 at 10:30

      Iโ€™d love Alice with jiggly boobs but sheโ€™s worried everyone would then know our lifestyle which is currently not in the open

      Reply
      • Evangelina says

        1 August 2022 at 14:18

        maybe you can convince Alice showing pictures of males with gynecomastia.
        Alice will eventualky need to admit that men have also medium sized boobs and that is your key to persuade Alice to get medium sized breast B-C cup.
        The main difference is shape, gynecomastia shape is usually different from female shapes…you need to chose the female one.
        There are men in Internet who got female implants and many decided to keep them… he will just become a chesty men..thats all

        Reply
      • Sissy says

        8 November 2023 at 12:37

        Hello lady Alexa,How big implants you want to give Alice small ore big

        Reply
      • Sissy says

        8 November 2023 at 12:38

        Hello lady Alexa,How big implants you want to give Alice small ore big ?

        Reply
        • Lady Alexa says

          10 February 2024 at 16:17

          I’ve gone off the idea of implants. I have other priorities now such as sissy sex.

          Reply
      • Penny says

        8 November 2023 at 13:29

        Omg just the thought of them . I do have glue on falsies and also a breast plate which do feel nice when dressed bouncing around . But I do have super sensitive nipples so nice to have them caressed. So real implants would be the best thing ever if I could hide them when in drab mode .๐Ÿ’‹ penny

        Reply
      • Sissy says

        8 November 2023 at 13:34

        DD size ?

        Reply
        • Penny says

          22 January 2024 at 05:01

          Yes . And a breast plate the breast plate looks better but glue ins feel more real . If us sissyโ€™s could ever really no what it actually feels like xx

          Reply
        • Penny says

          22 January 2024 at 23:00

          Yes ddโ€™s

          Reply
  26. Ken says

    6 June 2022 at 19:16

    Weโ€™ve probably dabbled in a female led marriage more than be very serious but we have been practicing male chastity and I wear a cage. Since early in the year I agreed not to cum, though weโ€™ve had an active and intimate sex life. No cumming has been tough but I think weโ€™ve been more active than ever. No plans to feminize me. My wife was reluctant to deny me orgasms, but sheโ€™s become confident and comfortable with it and I doubt Iโ€™ll get another orgasm. I pretty much focus on her and try to ignore other attractive ladies to avoid arousal though sheโ€™ll occasionally release me for carefully teasing me. Iโ€™m actually surprised weโ€™ve come this far.

    Reply
    • Lady Alexa says

      7 June 2022 at 10:34

      As you say, the sex life becomes far more active as you and Alice donโ€™t have to go through a recovery time and sex lasts longer as there is no male finish. Just a few moments of calming down then starting up again. I love it and Alice enjoys it to

      Reply
      • Penny says

        9 November 2023 at 16:47

        Yes nothing worse than an air trigger . End result an early night . Not fun for the ladyโ€™s . I do try so hard not to come but lady Maria seams to have other plans . As if she likes to get it over and done ๐Ÿ˜ข

        Reply
  27. Janet says

    6 June 2022 at 19:04

    The tube on my clitty is held in place through a piercing that has a ring in it and padlock goes through the ring.

    Reply
  28. Mistress Melissa says

    6 June 2022 at 14:08

    We need an update of Alice’s outfits!

    Reply
    • Lady Alexa says

      7 June 2022 at 10:35

      Ok Iโ€™ll put it on the list to do

      Reply
      • Penny says

        20 January 2024 at 12:43

        So do we get a glimpse of Aliceโ€™s new outfits ?

        Reply
        • Lady Alexa says

          21 January 2024 at 11:14

          I’m currently completing a follow-up book to How I Feminized My Husband. I’m going to publish new photos here on my blog to supplement the book – the book will link to the post. This is a about two weeks away.

          Reply
          • Penny says

            10 February 2024 at 11:46

            Perfect ๐Ÿ˜

            Reply
  29. Vivian says

    5 June 2022 at 04:31

    Alice is so lucky!

    Reply
    • Lady Alexa says

      5 June 2022 at 14:31

      That she is

      Reply
  30. Janet says

    4 June 2022 at 23:03

    Dear Lady Alexa

    I have been subjected to strict chastity for eight years now my tube has always been just enough to accommodate my flaccid clitty. It has been changed several times over the years as my clitty has gradually shrunk, to the point where the tube is the only thing that really gives any structure. Without the tube my clitty, when flaccid, shrinks back inside me to effectively only leave a flap of foreskin. When erect it is only 5 to 7 centimetres.

    Kind regards
    Janet

    Reply
    • Lady Alexa says

      5 June 2022 at 14:33

      So your mistress put a tube on your clitty? How did this work?

      Reply
    • Sissy says

      8 November 2023 at 14:35

      This is very hot best would be to remove the balls too itโ€™s my dream with big breast implants and permanent tattoos above the sissy clit and pussy no point off return to become a male again in total control off a mistress ore lady serve her in anything she pleases ๐Ÿ˜”

      Reply
      • Lady Alexa says

        9 November 2023 at 11:07

        Remove his balls? are you mad?

        Reply
  31. Martha says

    4 June 2022 at 17:42

    My Mistress and I used to belong to a Femdom group called LICK (ladies in charge of kink). At one of the monthly munches we met a woman and her boy. The boy was trained to cum on command. According to her the boy could last for hours and not cum until she gave him permission.

    Reply
    • Lady Alexa says

      5 June 2022 at 14:31

      I like that. Apart from the cumming bit

      Reply
      • Penny says

        15 August 2023 at 16:28

        Hmmm me too

        Reply

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